A Mere Dot

dot on a pageA Mere Dot

So small, I almost missed it. It’s there, though. Not just one, but several scattered throughout my book. Put there by an ancestor I never met. Camille Fitzpatrick Jacob. A great-grandmother whose bloodline runs through my son’s veins.

I first mentioned an antique book I inherited that belonged to Camille, written by J.R. Macduff, in my February 2, 2023 post, God Knows Our Need.

You can find another post I wrote inspired by Rev. Macduff’s devotional book, The Words and Mind of Jesus, here.

An Identifying Dot

Between February and March, I noticed something intriguing as I read this small book. Occasionally, in this  devotional packed with a mountain of wisdom, Camille placed a tiny, pen point dot on devotions she wished to identify as meaningful. A mere dot to identify words that spoke to her at the moment she read them.

A Dot of Insight

That mere dot tells me that while the entire book may have been important to Camille, she signified which ones were especially meaningful to her. That pen point dot gives insight into what she thought worth remembering.

Reading the devotions with the mere dot, the tiny, almost imperceptible mark, helps me understand the woman I never met. It offers a window into what she considered important.

The Dot Caught My Eye

Perhaps it is because a fellow undergrad called me the Queen of Highlighting long ago, that I noticed the small dot. If you were to look at my Bibles or numerous books, you would see why my friend gave me the nickname.

I like to highlight passages and verses I find significant. Those I want to easily refer back to. And that’s why I believe Camille placed a mere dot on some of the pages she read.

I believe, like me, she wanted to have that dot as a reminder of something significant.

What kind of dots are we leaving behind?

When we leave this life, what will our family discover was important to us? What will they find we viewed as significant?

Will those who never met us gain a glimpse into our lives through what we own or how we spent our time?

If they scrolled through our social media posts would they get a clearer picture of what we thought or how we said it?

What is our impact?

What is the impact of our influence on the people in our lives?

I never met Camille Fitzpatrick Jacob, but I knew four of her children. They were people whose lives she influenced. I knew what they valued as important. I saw how they treated people. Camille’s children were witnesses to her life.

As I read through this book of hers, I look for those dots. I try to imagine what she might have felt or been going through to cause her to pick each specific devotion.

I look to see if the devotional thoughts I find significant, were ones she felt significant as well.

I also wonder. What will those who come behind me think of the things I have highlighted throughout my life.

Your Turn

Do you have an heirloom you treasure for the person who owned it? Does the item give you insight into what they felt was important or meaningful?

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Blessed are those servants whom the master, when he comes, will find watching. Luke 12:37 (NKJV)

I wish you well.

Sandy

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(The dot Camille placed on the devotion in the picture above is from a devotion based on Luke 12:37, although the book reads Luke 12:35. Typos even in the 1880s. 🙂 )

Jesus Will Not Break the Bruised Reed

bent reedThe Bruised Reed

How often have we felt like a bruised reed? Something someone carelessly walked past and bent? Maybe the bruising came from a mean-spirited word, callous action, or outright hostility.

Perhaps we’ve felt bruised by a particular life issue that wore us down until we thought we’d never survive.

It could be we’ve felt bruised and burdened by our own harmful actions, callousness, and sins.

Whatever the cause of our bruising, Isaiah 42:3 tells us Jesus will not break the bruised reed. Neither will he quench the dimly burning flame.

Christ Tempers the Wind

In the 13th Morning devotion in his book, The Words and Mind of Jesus published in 1858, J.R. Macduff writes that Christ deals with bruised reeds tenderly, tempering the wind to the shorn lamb.

I love that picture of Jesus as our Good Shepherd. Macduff continued, saying Jesus utters no word of needless harshness or upbraiding to the erring wanderer. Jesus will not break the bruised reed. Instead, he gently brings the wandering sheep home.

Jesus is well aware of our sins and short-comings. Still, when he speaks to us, the goal is to lead us to repentance, not to crush us beyond all hope of restoration.

Do Likewise

It’s been my experience that not all of us have an attitude like Christ. We delight in crushing the bruised reed. The old kick a fella when he’s down, attitude. Macduff speaks to this when he says:

How many have an unholy pleasure in finding a brother in the wrong, blazing abroad his failings; administering rebuke, not in gentle forbearance and kindly expostulation, but with harsh and impatient severity! How beautifully did Jesus unite intense sensibility to sin, along with tenderest compassion for the sinner. J. R. Macduff The Words and Mind of Jesus 1858

Your Turn

Perhaps we’ve been on the receiving end of someone’s desire to break our bruised reed. Or it’s possible, we’ve taken pleasure in breaking another’s bruised reed. Either way, here are some closing insights from The Words and Mind of Jesus.

  • Never say harsh things if kind things will do as well.
  • Do not unnecessarily lacerate with recalling former delinquencies.
  • In reproving another, let us rather feel how much we need reproof ourselves.

Consider Christ’s encounters with the Samaritan woman at the well (John 4), the woman brought before him in judgement (John 8), and Peter post-resurrection. (John 21).

Jesus will not break the bruised reed. Instead, he tempers the wind, convicts gently, and tells us to go and sin no more.

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He will not break the bruised reed, nor quench the dimly burning flame. He will encourage the fainthearted, those tempted to despair. He will see full justice given to all who have been wronged. (Isaiah 42:3 TLB)

I wish you well.

Sandy

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